You got my attention!

Ibinabo Fibiresima. Seyi Shay. Latasha Ngwube. Jackie Appiah. Sylvia Nduka

The need to understand what the opposite gender finds exciting and fascinating is always a topic of interest. And so we ask a few guys the question every woman is dying to have an answer to: “when you look at me, what do you see?” In other words, the ladies would like to know some of the things that can keep his interest. Here are their responses…

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Yemi: I like a woman with a smile. It’s the icebreaker and it works all the time. A woman who smiles looks more beautiful, younger and interesting. It also shows she’s in a good place in her life. I think women should smile often cos they don’t! *Ladies, see Ibinabo Fibiresima's rich and happy smile*

Charles: The first thing I notice in a woman is her hair. I believe if a woman takes care of her hair, it shows she’s tidy. I’ve been with a girl once whose hair had a bad smell! It was a huge turn-off! After our first outing, I never picked her call again! A woman’s hair shouldn’t only smell good but must also look good! *Ladies, do you see how rich Seyi Shay's hair looks? Bet it smells terrific too!*

Nelson: I’ve noticed that big women don’t take their fashion seriously. It bothers me because I like big women but I can’t stand a woman, no matter how much I like her, if she can’t get her fashion right. I want to be able to take her places, flaunt her, and I can’t do that if she’s not well put together. When I see a plus-size woman who’s got an impressive style, with curves in all the right places, I just go crazy with joy! *Ladies, Latasha Ngwube is an amazing plus-size woman who knows exactly what style is all about! Get her look!*

Buchi: A woman will get my attention if she’s got positive energy. The world is such a cold place and it’s always a relief when you meet someone with a positive vibe, you know! She enlivens the ambience, she makes people laugh, she doesn’t take herself too seriously, she loves unconditionally, doesn’t have unreasonable expectations…a girl like that is a blessing. *Sylvia Nduka seems like she's on top of the world with that cheerful expression. Take a cue from her!*

Hassan: It’s hard to find any woman that can hold my interest longer than a few minutes because, I found out, everyone is trying to be someone else. It’s hard to appreciate you when I look at you and I see you are trying to be Kim Kardashian or Beyonce or Rihanna or Lady Gaga! I want to know you – who are you? But…maybe it’s an insecurity issue with women, they are laced with layers of pretence that you never really know who they are; you never really get to know them no matter how long you stay together. A woman who is happy to be herself, who loves being a woman, who accepts her looks and her body, and does all she can to enrich herself will definitely catch and keep my interest for a very long time! *We think Jackie Appiah represents a woman who loves who she is - a beautiful, talented black woman! What do you think?*

Let's know what y'all think about what the guys shared!